Thursday, February 28, 2008

Did You Forget About Food For Your Wedding Day?

You would think that with one of the biggest parts of the
wedding day being the reception, that food wasn't much of a
concern for the happy couple. If you are organized the least
little bit for your wedding, the odds are that you have already
take care of the catering end of things.

The problem that I have come across with couples on their
wedding day, on a very frequent basis, is the rest of the meals.
Before we get into why couples miss meals around their wedding,
let's take a look at what can result from low amounts of
nutrition on this ultra important day.

* Grumpiness! While you are probably on an emotional high, it
won't last, and missing some meals will catch up to you. It's
already a stressful event, and a lack of food in your system can
be an added drain on your reserves. Different people react in
different ways, but becoming over emotional in the form of tears
or snappiness are both fairly common.

* Fainting! You will be required to expend a lot of energy on
your wedding day by getting ready, standing around, driving
around, dancing, visiting, and so on. Many times brides AND
grooms who have been unable to eat end up falling down at the
altar.

Why didn't you eat?!

One way to avoid the hazards of a lack of nourishment on your
wedding day is to know exactly why so many couples don't have
enough in their systems. For the most part, this is due to
missed meals, and there are two big reasons for the exemptions:

1. Too nervous! The wedding day will give anyone butterflies,
and as it approaches most people don't feel as hungry as they
usually would.

2. Too busy! The days leading up to the wedding are pretty
packed and it can be hard to stop and have a bite to eat. In
addition, there is usually little time in between the ceremony,
the pictures, and the reception to get a bite for lunch.

Some quick fixes

Making sure that you are your best on your wedding day is often
a lot simpler than most people think. You don't have to overcome
those butterflies by stuffing yourself, but you do need to make
sure your body has at least the minimum amount of fuel it needs
to run. Here are a couple of ideas.

* Eat well at the rehearsal dinner. The day after is going to
be frightfully busy, and it is unlikely that your body will be
able to take in all the food it usually does until the reception
dinner. Take advantage of your rehearsal dinner to fill up!

* Eat a light breakfast. Brides in particular are notorious for
skipping breakfast as they get ready to head to the ceremony.
Don't neglect food altogether though; take the time to have a
glass of juice and/or mild, a piece of fruit, or even a muffin.
This little bit will power you through the ceremony.

* Have snacks ready. Most weddings will have the picture
session between the ceremony and the reception, and this can be
a long time in between meals. Make sure you arrange for someone
to bring snacks, again fresh fruit and drinks are the best
option (make sure someone also supplies some toothbrushes, just
in case!)

Don't be one of the many couples who forget about the little
meals on their wedding day! At the very least, going in under
nourished will compromise your ability to enjoy the day to its
fullest, and at the worst you might end up making a scene!

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Cheap Wedding Fun For Children

Children at a wedding can be precious, precocious and sometimes
a problem. Little ones bore easily and don't really understand
the meaning of a wedding. Everybody is excited and dressed up
and then just sit around watching the girls in the beautiful
dresses and their handsome guys, well just stand there. At
least that's the point of few from the child. Finding cheap
wedding fun for the children can be a lifesaver.

Keeping kids occupied while the ceremony is going on and well
behaved during the reception can be a problem. If the site
where the wedding is to be held has a separate room close by in
the same building, it can be turned into a nursery of sorts.
Most wedding ceremonies take from 20 to 30 minutes but be
prepared with activities for at least 60 minutes.

Children can color pictures of the bride and groom. Play pin
the bouquet on the bride or boutonnière on the groom, or make
wedding bouquets out of paper flowers. In expensive activity
books for several age groups can be purchased and then divided
up among the children.

If the facility allows it consider providing a snack and
drinks. Ideas might include string cheese, children love it,
precut apple slices, and boxed cereal. Keep drinks to juice
boxes to cut down on spillage.

The children can be supervised by one adult and perhaps a
preteen or two. If the wedding is held in a church, the church
most likely has a nursery area which allows everything to be
seen and heard.

One sweet way for children to commemorate a wedding is to give
each of them a bag of rose petals and have them throw the petals
in front of the bridal couple after the ceremony. No matter how
hard a little boy might throw the petals they don't go very far.
Or each child could be given a bottle of bubbles and bubble
wand.

The reception can include special activities for children as
well. A table at child's height filled with small toys and
treats should keep them occupied for hours. The dollar store is
a good place to collect a few toys. Stuffed toys in the bridal
party colors tied with a ribbon and perhaps a few silk flowers
is a favor the children will treasure. Consider taking a group
photo of all the children with the bride and groom. It's a
lovely keepsake for the bridal couple and each child's parent
can receive a copy as well.

Older children and preteens can participate in the wedding
festivities at the ceremony and at the reception with special
tasks. Perhaps they can help serve the cake after it's cut.
One child could ask people to sign the guest book. Children can
hand out wedding favors as the guest leave. If you plan on
throwing bird seed or rose petals as the bridal couple leave the
children can hand out the packages. Give each older child or
preteen a disposable camera with flash and tell them to take
pictures. You will be amazed at the photos.

Keep the children occupied with cheap wedding fun ideas and
everyone will have a happy time.

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